It’s very common for children to become upset when saying goodbye to their parents at childcare. While it can be difficult for both children and parents, these emotions are a normal part of a child’s development and adjustment to a new environment.

Many children experience separation anxiety, especially when starting childcare, moving into a new room, or after time away from the setting. Crying at drop-off does not necessarily mean a child is unhappy. In fact, most children settle within a short time and quickly become engaged in activities, play, and interactions with their friends and carers.

At childcare, we encourage parents to keep goodbyes positive, calm, and consistent. A quick hug, a reassuring goodbye, and letting your child know when you will return can help build trust and confidence. Although it may be tempting to stay longer when a child is upset, a prolonged goodbye can sometimes make the separation more difficult.

Creating a regular morning routine can also help children feel more secure. Simple things like arriving at a similar time each day or allowing your child to carry a favourite comfort item can make a big difference.

Most importantly, remember that this phase is completely normal and usually temporary. With patience, consistency, and support from both parents and carers, children gradually gain confidence and learn that childcare is a safe, enjoyable place where they can learn, play, and thrive.